Diagnosed with stage 4 cancer

Hi everyone gosh I don't know where to start in Dec I got rush in hospital has I couldn't pee properly I went to bed my daughter came in to see me I didn't know who she was she rang for ambulance which I was rushed in hospital I had kidney stones stuck in tubes to my bladder and a big stone stuck in left kidney my infection markers should be 0/10 mine was 208 I had uro sepsis I went to theatre they put tube in my kidney then put on antibiotics and saline has I was badly dehydrated I was poorly Dec Jan I had op 21st Jan which was draining but job done then Feb I got a letter which invited me for a free cancer lung test for over 55s I was very weak but I went that was on Fri by Mon the hospital phoning I need to go and see them the pulled up MRI scan back in 2024 there was 2 modules there 6mm nobody checked them or told me and this free scan shown us the 2 modules and 2 new ones had more test biopsy within a month after the test I got called in with my 2 daughters and husband to be to I have stage 4 cancer nothing can be done to help me I got cancer in lung liver spleen spine bones arms legs I just froze my right arm was so painful I had radiotherapy to ease the pain but they didn't tell me it would bun in different places I was in agony I went doctors he said I had shingles then my daughter looked it all up it was very deep burns even on my boob so has anyone experiencing this Donnxxa

  • Hello DonnaDoris and welcome to Cancer Chat,

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