Hey yeah,

Been there myself when I first got told I may have bladder cancer, I had to operation then had to wait two weeks for the results, I still remember walking into the hospital with tears in my eyes as I was so scared.

I did have cancer, but the waiting was worse than being told I had it, I think once you know the results and if it is cancer, you can mentally deal with it, also they would have a treatment plan mapped out.

So I don’t think there is a ‘normal’ when you are waiting for what could be life changing news.

I cried most nights whilst I waited and I am not ashamed to admit that.

I hope you are as okay as you can be.

Hi, bless your heart. I have an autistic son & that's why I'm trying my best to keep things as they were. But when he's not around, me & my fiancé cry. I'm terrified. Naturally. Who wouldn't be. Once I know, even if my results are positive, I can deal with that. But this next 7 days, it's like I'm going to have to force myself to carry on like any other day for my lads sake. He & my fiancé are my world & they're helping me stay strong. Thankyou for replying. Take care.

Hi, bless your heart. I have an autistic son & that's why I'm trying my best to keep things as they were. But when he's not around, me & my fiancé cry. I'm terrified. Naturally. Who wouldn't be. Once I know, even if my results are positive, I can deal with that. But this next 7 days, it's like I'm going to have to force myself to carry on like any other day for my lads sake. He & my fiancé are my world & they're helping me stay strong. Thankyou for replying. Take care.

Well if you ever need to vent to a total stranger then feel free to message me.

I hope it turns out okay for you.x

Thankyou, that's so kind of you. I really appreciate this so much xx

Well just remember you aren’t alone, there are a lot of people on here all willing to listen and to tell you their stories.

There is a great community on here and as I said I am here if you need to vent or just talk through things.

Take care and I wish you all the best.

I'm so glad I found this forum & thankyou for your kind messages xx