Breast cancer

Hello, I am a 34 year old woman and was diagnosed with stage 1 grade 3 breast cancer a few days ago. I have an MRI tomorrow to determine how big the lump is and if it has spread. The scan says it is 1.7cm. 
the last few days have been a blur, I can’t focus, really negative thoughts, deep dark place. I understand every cancer is different but i am just petrified. If I need chemo, I will be devastated as I don’t want to lose my hair. I know that sounds vein but I’m a young woman. 
looking for people to chat with to boost my spirits. I have a great support network around me, but want to chat to others who have been through this. 

thank you xx 

Parents
  • Definitely call the helpline. The nurse can offer better advice and support. MacMillan have a number of self care booklets that can be a useful resource too. Good luck and we are all here with you. You can do this. Also find a hobby for rest days off from chemo. Do puzzles, read stories or maybe try arts and crafts. Diamond art is fun to do, give it a try. Ask about treatment options  

    Carers UK offer a online activity program that is worth looking into. It’s called share and learn, take a look at their website. The details are on there. 

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  • Definitely call the helpline. The nurse can offer better advice and support. MacMillan have a number of self care booklets that can be a useful resource too. Good luck and we are all here with you. You can do this. Also find a hobby for rest days off from chemo. Do puzzles, read stories or maybe try arts and crafts. Diamond art is fun to do, give it a try. Ask about treatment options  

    Carers UK offer a online activity program that is worth looking into. It’s called share and learn, take a look at their website. The details are on there. 

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