Welcome to Cancer Chat. I'm sorry to hear of this situation - this sounds really difficult and I can understand you not knowing what to do.
A lot of this will perhaps depend on how things are with your ex-partner - you may know best, based on how the relationship is and how you feel about it all.
Hopefully you'll get some more replies from others on the forum soon. From the homepage of the forum you can also use the search bar at the top to find other relevant discussions and people to connect with, if you'd like to.
