hi I’m new to this forum
I’m 68-year-old lady with a lovely partner and a beautiful 27-year-old son who is my world

I have Blood in my urine which was first found on the 10th of October when I went to the GP with severe stabbing pains in my back since then I’ve had two more tests both have blood in the urine I had an ultrasound on my kidneys I was it still experience intermittent severe pain I called my GP again Who urgently referred to urology department for further tests.
The nurse  in urology called me and asked me a number of questions and  informed me I was not a high risk patient as I did not smoke she referred me for CT Scan i had a CT scan last Wednesday and I’m  awaiting results The CT nurse told me it could be up to 2 weeks I have all the symptoms of bladder cancer

I am very anxious and upset. I don’t know where to turn. I feel I’m in a void and nobody cares. I’m considering taking myself to A&E and queueing up for hours