Welcome to our forum Tracy.b even though I’m sorry to hear about the reason that brings you here,

I can only imagine how overwhelming it must be to take all this in. Hearing that it’s stage 4 and that chemotherapy needs to start soon is a huge shock, and it’s completely understandable that you’re struggling to get your head around it.

You might find it useful to look at this page on our website about chemotherapy. It explains what the treatment involves, possible side effects and ways to cope, which may help you feel a bit more prepared for what’s ahead.

Hopefully, others here who’ve had similar treatment will share their experiences and how they coped. Sometimes hearing from people who’ve been through it can help things feel a bit less frightening.

If you’d like to talk it through with someone with a medical background on the phone, our nurses are here Monday to Friday, 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., on 0808 800 4040.

Take things gently with yourself right now.

Best wishes,

Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator