Hi, I’m new. First time posting. I constantly feel like crying. I’m trying to be supportive of my husband who has bowel cancer. He’s already had a colostomy. On Friday we had a consultation which has frightened us so much with the details, my husband doesn’t feel he can go through with it. He has to have a pelvic exenteration following chemotherapy. If you have had this or know anyone who has, please let me know.