A carer - looking for advice on how to look after and support my husband. He's just been diagnosed with renal cancer. I'm struggling myself

I am here as my husband has been diagnosed with Renal Cancer and I want to be able to support him through this difficult process. Looking for advice as I’m scared to say the wrong thing and I’m struggling myself 

  • Hi Lulu01,

    Welcome to Cancer Chat. I'm sorry to hear of the situation with your husband - I am sure this is incredibly difficult and I hope you're getting on as OK as can be.

    I see you've posted elsewhere on the forum and received a reply from another member, which is good.

    We have a page on our website with information on supporting someone with cancer, which may be helpful. You can also search this forum, using the bar at the top of the page, for other relevant discussions and people to connect with.

    Do be sure to try to look after yourself as well. Again, we have a page on taking care yourself. Keep speaking to others where you can and try to find moments to take breaks.

    You may also wish to explore the possibility of a local support group, such as those offered by Maggie's.

    Hopefully you'll get more replies to your post here soon. We are always here for support if you need it and I hope the forum can be helpful for you.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Ben
    Cancer Chat Moderator