Awaiting results and feel overwhelmed

I feel so alone waiting for these results after my biopsy. My husband was symptomatic on the first day but now it’s like I have had nothing done and have not got this cloud over my head. No matter how many times I tell myself that it will be fine doubt creeps back in. I just wish I could fast forward to results day which I will or know when the appointment is until Tuesday hopefully. Do all people feel like me? 

  • Hi Lee 74,

    It's probably no consolation to you, but the way you are feeling is perfectly normal. Irrespective of the results, you'll feel better once you know what you're dealing with. Some people don't appreciate the stress that you're under when you're waiting for a diagnosis, especially if they haven't has any dealings with cancer before. Hopefully your husband will become more supportive if you get a cancer diagnosis. Our over-active imaginations take us to all sorts of dark places at this time and it can be difficult to remain positive

    I hope that you get your results on Tuesday and that it will be good news. Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

    Kind regards,

    Jolamine xx