Scared - my son survived a stem cell transplant for lymphoblastic lymphoma but has since developed gvhd. He's in ITU with 3 life threatening chest infections

My son was diagnosed in 2022 with lymphoblastic lymphoma,  after 9 months he was in remission,  in September 2024 we received the news we had been dreading it had come back and he needed a stem cell transplant, he underwent the transplant in March and we were told the 1st 100 days would be critical,  he made it past that day and all seemed to be well  he then developed gvhd that has resulted in him being admitted to itu with 3 life threatening chest infections in feel scared, panicked and am running out of hope I can't bear the thought of living without my son

  • Hello Amjaro

    I'm sorry to hear about all that your son has been through over the last few years. It sounds like it's been particularly difficult these last year, and it's understandable that you're feeling scared about what the future holds for him. 

    I'm unsure from your post if your son is still in the hospital or if his chest infections have been treated and he's come back home to his family. Wherever he is at the moment, I hope that he is being well supported by the health professionals involved in his care. 

    If you think it may help to talk things through with one of our nurses, you're welcome to call them Amjaro. I know they will be happy to listen and offer any advice, information and support they can. They're available Monday to Friday, 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040. 

    Hopefully some of the community members who also understand your situation will post to share their experiences and advice for coping with you soon. Keep in touch Amjaro and let us know how you get on. We're here for you. 

    Best wishes, 
    Jenn
    Cancer Chat moderator