Good morning, not sure why im here to be honest. Found out I have advanced stage 4 renal cancer and waiting to get a prognosis

Hi folks.

Baz, 51 from Aberdeen but living in east Midlands.

Recently found out I have stage 4 renal cancer, mastaseses to adrenal gland, spine,lungs and now brain

Just at the point of being offered treatments but not sure what to expect, they have only mentioned immunotherapy.

Im not wanting chemo and such as im not the fittest or healthiest as it is and dont want to compromise that anymore.

Hoping to get some sort of prognosis because lately I just feel it would be better if it just hurrys up an does its thing.

The back pain is horrendous and I think im going to have to give in am take their morphine which is another thing im not keen on taking, im well aware of addiction and dont fancy that much either.

Sorry but thanks for the rant.

Baz 

  • Hello Baz and welcome to Cancer Chat.

    I’m sorry to hear about your diagnosis and everything you're going through at the moment.

    It’s completely understandable that you’re feeling overwhelmed and unsure, especially now as you're beginning to hear about possible treatments. With that in mind, I wanted to share a page from our website with information about treatment for kidney cancer, in case it might be helpful to look through.

    You also mentioned worries about taking morphine. If you ever feel like asking more about that or anything else to do with symptoms or treatment please do know that our nurses are here to help. You can speak to them on 0808 800 4040, Monday to Friday, 9am to 5pm. They’ll be happy to talk things through with you.

    More than anything, I just want to say that you’re not alone. This space is here for you, whether you’re feeling angry, scared, uncertain, or just need to let things out.

    We’re here whenever you feel ready to talk.

    Best wishes,
    Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator