I noticed you haven't had a reply just yet so I wanted to quickly stop by to offer you a very warm welcome to the forum and to reassure you that your post has been seen.
I know this must be an incredibly difficult and scary time but our members are here for you Rutty and I'm sure some of them will be along soon to offer their support and advice.
I hope you'll find some of these tips we have on how to cope with the wait to be useful, but if it would help to talk things through with someone you can give our cancer nurses a call. They're available on 0808 800 4040, Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m and they will do all they can to support you and address any other questions and/or concerns you may have at this time.
We're thinking of you Rutty and wishing you both all the best with your spouse's referral.
