Struggling

Hi I’m Kas , I’m finding it very hard to be at home at the moment , I’ve had breast cancer twice in less than 12 months and now need chemo !! My husband is telling everyone how he’s caring for me , going to do this and that , when in reality when I’m out all day I get home and he’s done absolutely nothing , he just sits in the chair and I feel like I’m losing the plot , he doesn’t do anything unless I start to do it first and he doesn’t even pick up his rubbish after him it’s like following a child around . My treatment starts next week and I don’t think I can cope with him being around me 

  • Hi ive just had my first chemo and feel like ive got a mountain to climb,keep strongxx

  • Have you tried talking to your husband about this?  Has he always been like this or is it some sort of reaction to your illness?  Is he depressed?  If you don't think he'll change it might be helpful to stop fighting it and just accept it,.....It sounds like getting out of the house would be good eg meeting up w friends, combining chemo with a trip to your favourite coffee shop, sitting in the park etc. Very difficult but good luck.  Let us know how you get on