Hi

First my urine was orange ,brown and  bloody , for a few months i just ignored it cos at times it would go back yellow and clearish , one day the urine was rose red and i put a sample in at the doctors ,it came back blood in urine and no infection . The doctor sent me off to hospital for flexible cystoscopy well that was a shock got tumor in my bladder and a blocked right kidney . Got to go for another scan and on for a transurethral resection of bladder tumor im absolutely bricking it all i can think about is how do i tell the younger two children , ill wait till its done and the tumors been under the microscope  all i can do  is educate myself with the lingo but its all very scary stuff