Hi Rebecca,

A very warm welcome to our forum.

I am sorry to hear that you lost your nan to breast cancer and that your mum has found a lump. She has done the right thing by getting this investigated. I know just how scary this situation is. I lost my mum to secondary breast cancer and was later diagnosed with breast cancer myself. I has 2 bouts of cancer and 1 of pre-cancer, all within a year of each other. I had a Lumpectomy for the first time and a double mastectomy for the others. That was all 15 years ago now and I still lead a busy and fulfilling life.

It is difficult to say what is the best thing for you to do about her appointment. For her first visit to the breast clinic, your mum will speak to her consultant, be examined by him/her. She may also be sent for a mammogram, an ultrasound and possibly a biopsy. These are the 3 most common tests carried out. If she has a biopsy, she is likely to have to wait for another 1-2 weeks before she gets the results of this. The time that she will really need you with her, is when she returns to get the results.

I can understand why she wants you to go on the hen do and I suspect that you could go, as all of the tests that I mentioned are very straightforward.

Please keep in touch and let us know how she gets on. We are always here for both of you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Hi Jolamine, 

Thank you for your lovely reply ️ 

I’m in Birmingham and didn’t go on the hen weekend it didn’t feel right. 
My mum let me feel and look at her breast the lump is vert hard and definitely has nodules on, her breast is swollen and warm also her nipple is being pulled. I’m very concerned and I’m glad I didn’t go. 

her appointment is tomorrow just hope it’s all ok x x 

Hopefully all will be ok and also don’t mind even if you or even Jolamine could use the message feature apart from replying within this thread.

I’m sorry I don’t know what you mean I’ve never reached out on this chat before 

Sorry I don’t know what you mean?  

No problem, meant that it can be possible to add individuals as “friends” and then message directly apart from within threads like this

That’s no problem, may even feel of some use clicking on the “Forum Help” option from the main home screen to learn more about each of the features and how to use

Hi Rebecca,

I'm sure that both you and your mum will feel happier that you can both attend her consultation tomorrow. I sincerely hope that nothing untoward is found. 

Please let us know how she gets on.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

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