So my husband was diagnosed in February with bladder cancer. He has 2 G3 tumours removed but we were then told he had an aggressive tumour in the tube to his right kidney. Long story short he is now 3 weeks post selective cystectomy and right nephrectomy.

To family and friends this seemed to be a very radical solution.  But for him/us it is was the only way we could evade the 6 weekly checkups and treatment for something the Dr's were 80% sure would return. He didn't want want to live waiting for that to happen.

We will get there one step at a time.