I’m caring for my partner who was diagnosed with Small Cell cancer of the lungs. He is stage 4. He’s had 4 cycles of chemotherapy. The Dr have said that’s it.

I’m a retired nurse so I know how to care for my partner, but I’m 74 and this is so hard mentally. How do I stay strong when I’m watching the life drain from my partner. Life is so hard for him. He’s so so brave..

  • Hi Aika, 

    I noticed you haven't had a reply just yet so I thought I'd quickly stop by to welcome you to the forum, and to reassure you that your post has been seen.

    I'm so sorry to hear about your husband. This must be such a difficult and heart-breaking time for you both, but I'm glad you've joined us as our members will be very familiar with the challenges you're facing, so you are not alone Aika, and I'm sure it won't be long until you receive some support and advice.

    If there is anything you'd like to discuss with one of our cancer nurses, you can do so on 0808 800 4040. Their phone lines are open Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m and they will do all they can to support you and answer any other questions you may have at this time.

    Be kind to yourself Aika and remember that we are here for you, now and always.

    Best wishes to you both,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator