Hi everyone, my son was recently diagnosed with terminal lung cancer in January, 2 days before his 50th birthday and is receiving palliative care. He's my only child, we are a small family of his partner and 2 granchildren and that's it. He doesn't want to know how long he has left.
Having now processed this devasting news, I find I am very pragmatic about it and am thinking of the future when he's not here, of changing my will and LPA. Is this normal? He doesn't want too many people to know at the moment, doesn't want their sympathy, so spends most of his time indoors on his oxygen machine. We never have had a close relationship, so I don't see him on a regular basis, mainly because there's not a lot to talk about.
