Coming to terms

Hi everyone, I am 79 years old and just after Christmas last year I was diagnosed with secondary liver cancer. At first they couldn’t find the primary. I had a gallium scan which showed the cancer had been found in my lower bowel. I have neuroendocrine cancer. I have not really been able to come to terms with all this. I have Lanreotide injections monthly and will have a scan and blood tests in April next year. I haven’t had time to dwell on this diagnosis because as a result of this my husband has had a complete mental breakdown which means I am worried sick about him and feel responsible for his breakdown, I know this is irrational but nevertheless I do. I am constantly worried that he will not get back everything he has lost or indeed any of it and I will not be able to look after him when he comes home.

  • Hi Beanomum and welcome to the forum.

    I'm so sorry to hear about your diagnosis, and what has happened to your husband as well.

    This must be an incredibly difficult you both, but I'm glad you've reached out to us as our community are here for you Beanomum and I'm sure it won't be long until some of our members stop by to offer you their support and advice.

    If you would like to talk any of this through with one of our cancer nurses, they're just a phone call away on 0808 800 4040. Their helpline is open Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m and they will do all that they can to help.

    We're thinking of you Beanomum and sending all our support to you at this very challenging and upsetting time.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator