Hi so previously I mentioned about a new friendship that developed shortly before my friend got diagnosed with incurable cancer stemming from breast and is now just only a week in from first chemo so on the lead up we had talks and was all for you know help but when found out the treatment plan was going to be harsh nothing much was said and she made it firm she didn't need help so I texted her after 4 days after first chemo and she wasxfinding it rough said been told will defo loose her hair in week 2 so I've said how's thisxweek been and what she would like to talk about so it's not all cancer focused.

Just need extra tips though, she said she would like to tell me when she not feeling so poorly so I will message her as to not overwhelm her say on Thurs but I'll just send her something random unrelated because her well established friends she given constant updates and i wanted to not do that she knows I'm here for her but she wants to remain in control