Coping

Hi this is my first post my lovely sister has just been diagnosed with advanced none curable cancer, we don’t know where the primary is. My nephew her son is currently in ITU with life changing life threatening injuries, how on earth do we cope with this? I feel cheated of the life we should be having in the future, broken hearted. But how do I help her navigate through this? She has supported my nephew through all his issues in life and when and if he wakes up she may not be around to love and support him. I don’t know how to cope but I know I have to step up for her

  • Welcome to the chat.  I am so sorry with what you are trying to navigate.  Absolutely heartbreaking.  I don't know how you cope but you will.  Knowledge is power so get as much facts as you can.  You can deal with what you know, can't deal with what you don't know.

    I would suggest the old saying of one day at a time.  At times you might have to deal with one hour at a time to get through.  But know that you will get through the rollercoaster of emotions/practicalities and cross each hurdle as it arises.  Hope that helps. Sending much love and strength to you x

  • Thank you, trying to take each hour as it comes x