Welcome to the Cancer Chat community Jaytee although I'm so sorry to hear about the growth that has been found. 

Unfortunately I can't answer the questions you've asked in your post but our very friendly and insightful team of cancer nurses may be able to help, so if you'd like to discuss this further, do give them a call on 0808 800 4040. Their helpline is open Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m.

Hopefully some of our members who have been in a similar position will share their experiences and advice with you soon as well, but in the meantime we're thinking of you Jaytee and wishing you all the best going forward.

Kind regards,

Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator