Struggling with my partners cancer

I am finding it so hard to deal with my partners cancer. After chemo & radio nothings working. Trying another chemo now but things aren’t looking good.  I am just so so sad and tired. I just want things to be better.  His cancer started as a small spot on his scalp. He had 3/4 of his scalp removed then the skin graft failed now he has scc over his forehead and face disfiguring him. I’ve never anything like this  It’s so awful.     Gill x

  • Hello GillyPritch.  Is there anyone that you can talk to?  Friends or family?  I wish that I could give you some positive advice, but sadly I can't  You and your partner are in a terrible situation, and sometimes a cancer diagnosis breaks up a relationship.  I was diagnosed with breast cancer 5 years ago and my marriage collapsed under the strain of it.  I am sorry I couldn't offer you any constructive advice, the only thing I can do is to tell you that I know exactly what you are going through, x