Husband’s possible prostate cancer relapse

Hi there, my husband is 77. He was treated successfully 10 years ago with HDR brachytherapy/radiation and hormones. Gleason 9 Tc3 at the time. Currently very fit and well. 

He’s had regular PSA checks every year, the latest one last week. Missed call from GP today asking him to call the surgery re results but found message too late this afternoon to call back. He’s checked his NHS app and the record says: Rising PSA Ca Rx? Refer to urology. He’s pretty philosophical about it and says he feels absolutely fine in himself but selfishly, it’s me that feels absolutely floored! I’ve not shown my concern in front of him, but I’m gutted for him that having been through all the treatment and it’s all behind him, it looks like he’s going to be back on the treadmill, or possibly worse.

I’m not sure I know what I want to ask or say really. We had so much planned for the next year and he was so excited. I’m sorry to be so negative, but I’m still trying to process what the future might hold.

Thank you for reading this. I really appreciate it.

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  • Hello JagChamp, 

    It's nice to know that your husband was treated successfully 10 years ago and that he is currently fit and well. It's good that he is having regular PSA checks every year so that they are regularly monitoring him and keeping a close eye on him. Try not to worry too much if you can as the fact that his PSA is rising is something to keep an eye on but it doesn't necessarily mean that the cancer is back for example or there is anything of immediate concern but they seem to be very thorough and it's good that he will be referred to urology and that they will check everything closely. 

    It's normal in your place to be worried about what the future might hold after learning about this referral but I am keeping everything crossed for you that it isn't necessarily a sign of relapse. Obviously you will only know exactly what is going when you have had your appointment and I hope that none of this will have any impact on all the exciting plans you have for the next year. I hope you won't have to wait long for your urology appointment as the wait can be the hardest thing and make your mind go into overdrive and fear the worst. We have some helpful tips to help you cope while waiting for important news which I hope you will find helpful. 

    I hope all goes well for you both at the appointment - keep us updated on what you find out if you have a minute. And if you have anything you would like to talk through with one of our cancer nurses, don't hesitate to get in touch with them on this free number 0808 800 4040 - their helpline is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm (though closed this bank holiday Monday and exceptionally this Thursday 9th May due to training). 

    Best wishes to you and your husband, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

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  • Hello JagChamp, 

    It's nice to know that your husband was treated successfully 10 years ago and that he is currently fit and well. It's good that he is having regular PSA checks every year so that they are regularly monitoring him and keeping a close eye on him. Try not to worry too much if you can as the fact that his PSA is rising is something to keep an eye on but it doesn't necessarily mean that the cancer is back for example or there is anything of immediate concern but they seem to be very thorough and it's good that he will be referred to urology and that they will check everything closely. 

    It's normal in your place to be worried about what the future might hold after learning about this referral but I am keeping everything crossed for you that it isn't necessarily a sign of relapse. Obviously you will only know exactly what is going when you have had your appointment and I hope that none of this will have any impact on all the exciting plans you have for the next year. I hope you won't have to wait long for your urology appointment as the wait can be the hardest thing and make your mind go into overdrive and fear the worst. We have some helpful tips to help you cope while waiting for important news which I hope you will find helpful. 

    I hope all goes well for you both at the appointment - keep us updated on what you find out if you have a minute. And if you have anything you would like to talk through with one of our cancer nurses, don't hesitate to get in touch with them on this free number 0808 800 4040 - their helpline is open Monday to Friday from 9am to 5pm (though closed this bank holiday Monday and exceptionally this Thursday 9th May due to training). 

    Best wishes to you and your husband, 

    Lucie, Cancer Chat Moderator

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