Kidney cancer - worried about it coming back. Am I selfish for being like this?

I had a partial nepherectomy 8 wks ago consultant informed me this wk it was cancer but low grade  I now have to have yearly scans in case it comes back or returns in other kidney  and yes I'm worried but what I get from some family is your OK now they will have got it all  but I dont feel OK! Due to fact it could return or start In  other kidney am I being selfish  being like this 

  • Hello Hun,

                      how you are feeling is understandable but not very helpful to your cause. Stressing yourself is just getting in the way of letting your body do the best for itself, so why would you had over an advantage to a potential problem. look to your positives, leave the negatives behind, and crack on with life,

                                                                                                                                                                                                     go gently, David