Hi I’m Debs I have just been diagnosed with bowel cancer stage 3 which has spread to my lymph nodes, I’m hoping to have an operation, then start radiotherapy and chemo on the 21st May, my head is all over the place phone call after phone call, appointment after appointment, mostly my appointments are not near me, I’m a carer for my 99 year old Dad and I am worried sick how he is going to cope, I need transport to and from the hospital, and maybe a carer to come in and do general housework, any advise would be very much appreciated.