Have advance prostate too with 5 lymph nodes but two have got bigger and spreading, am of high risk , they said hope to control it but it takes time to see what the results may be, am ex royal marine so hope am not out of line in saying have always face things head on, mine can't be cures but to only tried manage it, and like your hubby the signs of lymph nodes is just another chapter to see where it spreads to, for me it's live for today and hope for tomorrow, he's got u so hopefully the love I have will at least help him And with past experience anyone should never give up on love, my wife died 18 years ago of breast cancer but that love for her as never gone, so wish I both all the best, from ex army veteran that cares,