Hi everyone.My husband has been battling with Pancreatic cancer for about a year now.It has spread to lung,liver and were waiting to see if its in his brain.Hes lost almost 3 stone in weight and he was 11 to start.Spending 5 weeks in hospital in London didn't help as he doesn't eat or thrive in there so I am caring for him alone.Family live abroad ,Aus and Sw France .They visit when they can but that's not really helping much.Im tired and so sad.My big strong man as week as a kitten.Please anyone give me some advice as to my next move.We have a palliative nurse coming Friday but hubby want to stay at home..I think in a hospice towards the end would be better for both of us but I feel so very guilty as I know he wants to stay at home.My best friend died in a hospice a few years ago and it was a better environment than hospital and she was well cared for .I visited her every other day.Anyone else in this situation.?
