Hi, My husband was diagnosed with smoldering Myeloma Feb 23. He has started with a lot of pain and extreme weakness in his legs and fatigue. He's going for an MRI next Sunday as the doctor thinks it's time to start treatment. I feel your pain when you say about not knowing how to make him feel better, I sometimes feel dead inside I know that probably sounds selfish when he's suffering but miss our life before so much. Seeing him suffering breaks my heart 100 times a day. I plan nights away now, in a hotel with a spa he can't walk far but we just relax and spend quality time together, he's only 52. He has also lost his appetite like you say and has lost lots of weight, he wouldn't eat if I didn't put food down. Sorry didn't mean it to be so long, got carried away. Never shared with anyone before. Take care of yourself, Jayne x