A warm welcome to our forum, Jacky1.

I'm sorry to hear about your husband's condition, what a difficult situation must be for the both of you.

Considering your husband's age and existing health conditions, it's crucial to have open and honest discussions with his healthcare team about the potential benefits and risks of the proposed treatment as they can provide valuable insights into what to expect and help you make informed decisions based on your husband's individual circumstances and preferences.

Facing such decisions can feel isolating, but it's important to know that you're not alone. Many families have grappled with similar choices when it comes to balancing treatment options with potential side effects, especially in cases where the patient's overall health is fragile and I hope you'll meet some people here who will understand how you're feeling.

Best wishes to you both,

Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator