Moody husband

I was diagnosed in October with cancer and have had my relentless treatment. I’m now waiting on my scan but not til end of April so my anxiety is high. 

my husband was “practically” great through the treatment. 
Now though he is acting like the world owes him a living. He is moody, nasty, un affectionate. Unsupportive. The list goes on. He is actually mean to me. 
he is the main breadwinner by far and financially I can’t cope without him. We have a beautiful very loved young teen after many years of infertility. We have been together 23 years. 

I Just don’t know what to do I shouldn’t be having to worry about him and his behaviour when I have the world of cancer on my shoulders. 

  • Hello Clarabellyboo,

    I'm sorry to hear about your situation, which, I can imagine, isn't helping your anxiety levels. If you're finding things a little overwhelming, Anxiety UK has some good advice to help manage this. It's a shame that your husband is not being supportive. It might be worth explaining to him how you've been feeling, if you haven't already, and that this is affecting your wellbeing. However, if you find something doesn't feel right in the relationship, you can refer to guidance on the Women's Aid website

    I hope this helps and the forum is always here whenever you need it,

    Moderator Anastasia