Hello Nannyno1

I'm so sorry to hear about all that you and your family have been through over the past few years. Undoubtedly this has been a hard time for you all and it's understandable that you're feeling alone.

I'm glad that you've reached out to the Cancer Chat community for some support. Connecting with others and talking about how you feel can certainly make things feel a little less overwhelming and lonely. 

We have some information on our website about taking care of yourself which you may find helpful but I'd really encourage you to talk with your GP about how you're feeling as well. They will be able to let you know what services may be available in your local area and may possibly be able to refer you to a counsellor if this is something you both feel may be of help. Your GP may also be able to offer some advice to your husband about his drinking.

You might also like to have a look at the website for a charity called Maggie's. They support many people across the UK impacted by a cancer diagnosis and it may be there is a centre locally that you can visit. 

If you'd like to talk with one of our nurses for some advice you are most welcome to call them. I know they will be happy to listen and offer any support they can. they're available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040. 

It can be hard being the rock of the family Nannyno1. Don't be afraid to let those around you know that sometimes you need some support and comfort as well. 

Sending my best wishes, 
Jenn
Cancer Chat moderator