Thankyou so much for replying . He is on steroids but only for 3 days after his chemo/immunotherapy begins then no more till the same on next  cycle .After day 1 it's tablets at home .Our world has turned upside down with this and the emotions floor me mainly as I'm trying so so hard to be positive for him but I'm a softy and can't hide my feelings very well . Many many times we have a cuddle and a cry then pick ourselves up and move forward . Hope all goes well for and thankyou again xx

Keep your chin up x 

if we cry, so what… it’s better than bottling it up. This is one of the hardest things to go through and unless you have this situation going on, you would never understand how hard it is.  
I can remember watching the advert on the tv stating one in three will have cancer, and dismissing it as it will never happen to us. Sadly it has, so I’m living one day at a time and if I get upset or laugh a lot, then that’s ok with me.  Try and take one day at a time and one set back or one good thing at a time xx  keep well 

I will and bless your heart for listening 

<span;>Oncologist yesterday weight  loss a total of 22 pound lost since 15th nov  to yesterday, dietician  gave a tin of powder to increase calorie into food  just need to try and get him to eat. Cancer is in skin bones and spot on liver, oncologist discussed a 4 (3 wk) cycle chemo but did say through this will be more prone to infection and possibly sepsis, hair will definitely fall out and nails damage also reminded us it is progressive and thats 1 yr now but for many he wd not suggest this treatment he said he is young and generally fit ..... gave all details away of treatment for us to read over oncologist will see my husband next week to ensure he is fit for this treatment and hear his opinion on this once he has had time to process it.

How’s things going? X 

hope you are ok 

Is so much sleep normal when having chemo , my husband never sleeps more than 2 hrs at a time but its on and off all day abd night pretty much xx he's very weepy too x thankyou for listening and hooe you are ok xx im just so lost 

Hello, sleep won't do him any harm his body and mind is going through a lot, and whilst he is resting you rest too to build your strength to keep going. I am not sure how long your husband has had his diagnosis and how far into treatment he is, wither he is still able to eat take each day as it comes every day is different some can be good and very positive. X

Diagnosis since September lovely but I see so much change , they are talking of changing his chemo now , im glad , this one  is wiping him out xx thankyou for listening to me xx 

Been going through similar since husbands diagnosis May 23, I am here to listen I know how you are feeling don't feel your alone I hope you have good support around x