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Hello - anxious about upcoming surgery

glen74
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Hello

I am new on here and just wanted to get some general advice. 

In just over a week I al having a kidney removed due to a tumour which was found by accident late in November. I’m so lucky in so many ways but I’m really anxious and scared about the procedure and I’m feeling very emotional. I am trying to take the positives in that they say they have found it and it’s not spread and they believe I will be cured of this cancer but I can’t get my head around it as I don’t feel poorly. 

I have an amazing family and an amazing partner and I feel I’m a burden as I have so many moments where I am struggling. 

The thought of the procedure is very daunting and I feel so scared each day it gets closer it gets worse. I know it all could be so much worse but just looking for some advice/reassurance. 

Thank you 

  • Hi Glen and welcome to the Cancer Chat forum.

    It's only natural to be feeling nervous in the run up to your surgery but I'm glad you've reached out to us for support as so many of our members will know what you're going through, so you are not alone and I'm sure it won't be long until you receive some reassurance and advice.

    Sometimes people feel more at ease about their surgery when they know what's going to happen during the procedure so if you'd like to find out more do be sure to take a look at this link. We also have a team of very friendly and knowledgeable cancer nurses you can talk to on 0808 800 4040. Their phone lines are open Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m and they will do all they can to ease your mind and answer any questions you may have at this time.

    Do keep posting if you find it helps Glen and we're wishing you all the very best for next week.

    Kind regards,

    Steph, Cancer Chat Moderator

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