I only found out 2 months ago so it's still fresh. Its spread to my lungs and lymph nodes so it's just a matter of trying too calm it down. It's all new to me right now
If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? you say you live alone too, that's an awful lot to deal with at any age and whether you're alone or not! Had you had bother with your kidneys before the cancer diagnosis? Must have been such a shock. I have surgery in a few weeks time to remove breast cancer recurrence from my chest wall. A CT scan showed a small nodule on my liver and lung so waiting for an MRI. Don't seem to be in a hurry but it's agonising just wondering if its spread. Don't know how l will cope. How do you cope? xx
Hi Spoony am 53 years old. And have not had any health issues at all. 2 months ago I was riding my bicycle over 160 miles a week and doing over 30,000 steps a day.now am out of breath just walking down school corridors. I do live alone and have for over 2 years now, I have 3 son's and one grandson they help me to get use to things. I been told that surgery is out of the question. And it's just controlling it try to stop it getting any worse.
So sorry to hear this. So this has all happened in a space of two months! Must be really hard when you're used to loads of physical exercise. Glad you have your sons and grandsons to help you. Got a phone call this morning to say l get my MRI next Wednesday. Just a waiting game to see if its spread xx
Don't be sorry am ok with it. it Is what it is. I hope all goes well with your MRI. And you get the results you need. It's frustration more than anything else with me I'm not used to light duties in work. Keep trying to do things and get shouted at by colleagues
I wish l was being brave like you but to tell you the truth I am not coping well. The last time I had it I was 55 and had quite a heavy job. I didn't feel ill or anything. I just got on with it. This time I just feel so tired and drained. Thinking the worst but putting on a brave face because it's Christmas, Eeh feeling sorry for myself this morning. Sorry for moaning on. Your attitude is amazing, hoping it might rub off on me a bit. Don't push yourself at work tho, you have to look after yourself. Wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas xx
