It’s so hard … I’m 51 and watched my mum go through treatment for lung cancer last year it was the hardest thing I’ve ever been through-so I can understand why your mum might feel that way xx so hard for u though to see that though … maybe the oncologist might be able to speak to her xx 

Thanks for your reply. Sorry to hear your mum had a tough time. Was the treatment successful and what did she have please? Mums oncologist gave her the only option which is Sabr radiotherapy. Mum is now thinking about it but a he still seems to be more on the side of doing nothing. She will probably decide by Monday. It’s stage 2 and 4cm. Grown about a cm in four months. I think I  do understand her thought process too a point. It’s just knowing the fact that the whole process, whichever she chooses will be difficult for her.  Take care. 

My mum is doing well atm she had her scans recently and is back at the oncologist see the on Monday so we will see then . She was diagnosed with stage 2 - had an op and then chemo and radiotherapy but like that it kept changing first it was that they were just doing the op no chemo .. then she needed the chemo … after the chemo they wanted to do preventative radiotherapy - I think if they had presented her with this at the beginning she would have refused! It’s such a hard journey for    
anyone to go through . Is your mum in good health other than that ?