Hello SamorSam

I’m so very sorry to hear that your partner has been diagnosed with cancer again. It’s understandably a difficult time for you both and natural that you might have some questions about his diagnosis and the next steps.

We know that many people turn to the internet for information after receiving a cancer diagnosis. It’s important to remember that much of what is available on line is out-dated or aimed at worst-case scenarios. This then leaves people feeling even more anxious and worried so try to avoid searching for information online if you can.

I think that many people here will agree that communication is key when supporting a loved one with a cancer diagnosis. Maybe you and your partner are able to sit down together and have a conversation where you can both talk, ask questions and address any concerns that the other one may have. As your relationships has changed from when he previously had cancer, it’s probably a good idea to talk things through together.

We also have a team of nurses that you’re welcome to contact and I’m sure they will be happy to offer any advice, information and support they can. They’re available Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm on 0808 800 4040.

Do keep in touch SamorSam. We’re here to listen and support you through this.

Best wishes,

Moderator Anastasia