Hi my husband is 75 and was diagnosed in Feb 22 with star 3 myeloma he has had 3 different cycles of chemo which are only bringing the myeloma into a  partial response and he was therefore unable to have stem cell transplant his chemo had made him very poorly he became anorexic extreme weight loss and constant diorama throughout. Her has had numerous scans endoscopy etc but it would appear the hero caused the extreme weight loss etc. He saw his consultant about 8 weeks ago and is due to see him again t the end of next week.. He is off all medication with a view to watch and wait?

The roller coaster ride and uncertainty has been so difficult I fear we are now approaching a final stage and would like some hones conversation with his oncology team how is the best way to go about this any advice please.