Sorry to read this Jen, have you looked on face book at Fight Bladder Cancer, it’s a private group you join but people are so supportive, I’m sure you’ll find a lot of help there. I have grade 3 bladder cancer, had BCG treatment and been clear for 11 years. There is hope. Good luck to your dad and I’ll look for you on fight bladder cancer xx

Sorry to read this Jen, have you looked on face book at Fight Bladder Cancer, it’s a private group you join but people are so supportive, I’m sure you’ll find a lot of help there. I have grade 3 bladder cancer, had BCG treatment and been clear for 11 years. There is hope. Good luck to your dad and I’ll look for you on fight bladder cancer xx

Hi Sue, 

Thank you for your reply.  My dad has Sarcomatoid Cancer and it's really rare and they've said that chemo and radio might not touch it but we may have the option to try.

I will check out the Facebook page - thank you so so much for replying it means so very very much to just have someone there.  It's a very isolating business and we are only 1 day into diagnosis. 

I will look out for you too xxx

You’re welcome Jen and I hope the doctors can help your dad. It’s a worrying time when you first start out as you don’t know what you’re dealing with and the waiting is just the worst thing ever. I don’t post much on that site now but the people are so knowledgeable and I’m sure will give you all the help you want x

Thank you so much.   xxx