Welcome to Cancer Chat, Sandybobs.

I'm sorry to hear about your partner's health situation. It sounds like you're going through an incredibly difficult time right now.

Hopefully other forum members who can relate to your experience will come along shortly to chat with you and offer advice but in the meantime it might be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about the seriousness of the situation, especially considering their refusal to go back to the hospital and the continued smoking.

Seeking medical advice and support is crucial. Remember, you don't have to navigate this alone—reaching out to healthcare professionals and support networks can provide guidance and comfort during this time.

The other thing I wanted to mention is that our team of nurses are a phone call away if you feel like having a chat with someone with a medical background. They're available Monday - Friday between 9a.m - 5p.m on this number 0808 800 4040.

I hope this helps a little.

Best wishes to you both,

Renata, Cancer Chat Moderator