I would say tell him to go right now ,you have enough to deal with without a selfish man who chooses this time to tell you this ,to me there's no point in even trying to make him stay he's shown his true colours and as you know you can't make someone love you if they don't ,Its all very sad but you don't need him around ,I would just concentrate on yourself and your daughter ,keep good friends and rely on them until you are out of the situation you are in ,he may come to his senses he may not but you have to try and get yourself strong enough to deal with being without him ,you and your daughter can be fine together ,losing your hair etc is temporary you'll come out of this stronger than you are right now ,I really wish you the best for the future let us know how you get on with your treatment etc Best wishes to you x

That is absolutely awful for you ! What a *** ! Tell him to get out , you don’t need this stress on top of everything. Your hair will grow back , you are still the same strong person . I didn’t bother with a wig and felt great , have a pixie cut after just 4 months . My friend on the other hand preferred a wig , it’s a personal thing . Look after yourself and your daughter , if he can’t stand by you through this don’t even bother trying . I know it must be hard but try and come  to some agreement for him to see his daughter.Stay strong and all the best