Vanessa 

I too went private I was told like you concerned and suspicious a week later it was confirmed xx 

good luck for results here to chat anytime love Lara xxx 

Hi Lara, thanks for the message. How is it all going? I'm preparing for the news so finding hearing other stories are helping x

My diagnosis was July 22 

honestky wasn’t as bad as I thought I promise you xx just had my first annual check all clear xx 

That's really good to hear. I am anxious at the moment until I know what I am dealing with. When you had scans did they pick up on enlarged lymph nodes? I think that's the thing I am most worrying about x

That's really good to hear. I am anxious at the moment until I know what I am dealing with. When you had scans did they pick up on enlarged lymph nodes? I think that's the thing I am most worrying about x

Vanessa 

try not to worry to much this could come back clear .

my first appointment was a mamo after the msmo they called me in to another room said they got something suspicious they need to biopsy I then knew I could feel the atmosphere in the room change , they also told me for my appointment 7 days later to make sure my husband attended with me . From then I knew I was deffo getting I diagnosis .

at that point nothing felt in my nodes however I had a lunpectomy and node biopsy after that operation I had a teeny trace in one node so I then went on to have a 2 nd operstion rsmoving 30 nodes these came back clear .

this all sounds horrific but it really wasn’t don’t get me wrong I had uo and down days a few wobbles along the way .

I continued to work right through lived normal ignoring it and this worked for me as crazy as it sounds , I now feel one year on like it never happened life is fully back to normal and I don’t give it a thought , breast cancer treatment has come on a long way . 
I’m always here to chat lovely xxx love Lara xxx 

Hi Vanessa,

A very warm welcome to our forum.

I had 3 cancer scares within the one year. My consultant thought that all 3 were suspicious. Fortunately, he was wrong about the middle one. When the biopsy results came back this was benign. Unfortunately, he was right about the other 2. I had 6 lymph nodes removed, but all were clear. However, that was 14 years ago and I still lead a busy and fulfilling life. Treatments have come a long way in the past few years.

You are bound to be worried at present, but try to remind yourself that no amount of worry will alter the outcome. I sincerely hope that all turns out well for you. Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Vanessa 

stay here for support and help if you need us let us no how you get on nest week if it’s positive news it’s always lovely to post here too for others waiting  xx. 

Thank you, your post is reassuring. Its great to hear how life is back to normal for you x

Thank you and for sharing your story. My husband thinks I should stay off forums but it is helping me prepare x

My husband said the same , but it helped me so much that’s how I’m still here a year on to help others if I can had to be your decision xx 

Hi thought I would say that I personally find some folk over play it on here. Don't jump to the negative wait for the consultant to explain what is needed. Take your husband with you as not all that is said you will remember ask for all in a letter. That gives you time to read & search on Web for information.  This site is good you can discover lots. The best doctors are with you. Best wishes .

Cyclegran 

that’s the first negative I’ve heard on this site since joining , that’s interesting do you think some folk over play , I’m not sure I’ve noticed x love Lara xx 

This is Vanessarobbo's post.  Yours is negative I found frightening 30 lymph glands removed.I had no lymph involvement,  2 were taken as I was part of a research program. Sorry to disagree with you.

Cylclegran 

I was simply telling my story 100 percent truth so it’s negative for me but it no means to anyone else .