I joined this group in the hope that i could talk to other people who have loved ones that have have a terminal diagnosis.

My beloved brother is dieing from esophageal and liver cancer , he is suffering alot of pain and its hard to watch . we are very close and selfishly i worry what i'm going to do without him ,

We are very much alike and although i love my other siblings i'm not as close with them . His wife has also been diagnosed with breast cancer and is going through chemo at the moment , they are both very brave and supporting each through r their treatments . they were hoping to have some quality of life together before the enevitable happens , but there lives seem to be about endless rounds of appiontments.

I am close to my sister in lnlaw and feel able to talk and listen and talk to both of them about the practical and the emotional side of the situation . its just difficult for me to be able to talk to someone .my Husband is i kind and loving man but he struggles with talking about emotional pain ,he,s a problem solver but you can't really solve this one.