Hi all 

this is my first time posting here my husband of 10 years has recently been diagnosed with stage 4 prostate cancer the last year has been awful last March he ended up in hospital with a heart attack it was then there was problems found with him going to the toilet he was told to report this to the Gp which he did and on 2 occasions they failed to follow through on referring him for morning testing but to us did eventually happen in October 2022 we went through all the test and in January this year we got told he had cancer they have been very good with getting him all the support he needs but the thing we having been asking for is if there is any support at all for both of us together to speak to someone but every single time I ask I'm told sorry we can't provide any support for you we only provide support to the person that has cancer has anyone had this experience or does anyone know if there is any support for couples or families dealing with cancer

thank you in advance Gemma