Hi. Newly diagnosed with breast cancer

Hi,

I was diagnosed just before Christmas and am waiting for a date for surgery. I am feeling very down and quite anxious about it all because I've only just recovered from open heart surgery and a valve replacement in 2020, then diagnosed with heart failure that meant I took early (ill health) retirement.

I was always very fit and very busy. The cardiac surgery and diagnosis really wiped me out and I was just starting to reclaim some of my life when this hit me.

So, sitting here feeling 'what's the point' of doing anything. I can't plan anything either as i don't know what is facing me re: further treatment - especially as I can't have radiotherapy because of the location of the tumour and I already have an implanted cardiac device under the same breast.

Wondering when any of this ends and why I am being repeatedly hit.

Sorry for being so negative but I really am sick of all of this. I know that I am lucky in many ways, and am grateful, but today is a bad day.

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  • I'm good thank you I have finished treatment in nov I'm now on tamoxifen daily and doing well at work at home .

    will you be taking the hormone tablets after your treatment and operation ? 
     

    sorry that the meds are not working when you say this time have you been in this situation before bless you sue x 

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