I've been worried about a lump for a week and just found a dimple. Haven't seen anyone yet. Its heartbreaking to read your story. My son who is disabled needs me on his team and as his advocate. He is Epileptic etc. Whatever it is for me similar to you I choose life and living well for as long as possible. 

Prayers and hope. Xx

I hope you get seen soon. All my love 

Thank you, it's like being in suspended animation. You just need to know. Then when you do know you wish you didn't I suspect. 

Hi HardyHarvey,

A very warm welcome to our forum.

Unfortunately, cancer hits many of us at times that we least suspect it.  At first it feels like being hit by a fast train, but once you get through that dreadful period of waiting for results, you can start to fight it.

I hope that your biopsy results tomorrow will point the way forward for you and that you still have many years ahead of you with your beautiful daughter and wonderful partner.

Please keep in touch and remember that we are always here for you. I myself have had two bouts of breast cancer over the past 13 years and still lead a busy and fulfilling life.

Kind regards,

Jolamine xx

Hi Senrab,

A very warm welcome to ourr forum. I am so sorry to hear that you have found a lump too. Fortunately, not all lumps are cancerous, but it is always wise to get any breast change checked out as soon as possible. 

Please keep in touch and let us know how you get on. We are always here for you.

Kind regards.

Jolamine xx

Thank you, I hope it not but aware it might be. Fingers crossed. I need to stay alive for my son who is very complex let's say. Xx

Thank you. The appointment times have changed and I have a PET scan today and then my results on Monday. My mum is coming with me for those.

I'm even more terrified now than I was having the initial assessment now I know it's in me.

xxx

my dad had several cancers including spine.. he had surgery to strengthen it and hes been very hard working last 10 years.. however recently it came back to haunt him and he became paralysed.. hes not gone long left now. i would advise doing as much as you can physically while you can still.. sorry if i sound insensitive..

i wish you well.. and now my dad has gone