My husband has late stage liver cancer and is going into hospital a week on Monday for a liver resection. We've been waiting 5 months for a decision on treatment and now it is scarily real.
In my cancer journey, I look back and the scariest for me was waiting for things to start ... once they start then you can stay in the day and cope with things as they come up ..
I would say, don't look into the " what ifs" there's loads and can be overwhelming... so try to stay in the day ... and know your not alone ... most of us and thousands more have trod this road your on ... it's like a rollercoaster emotional ride... many highs and lows ... but hang on tight ... wer all on that ride with you .. and i know as ive been on both sides .. its harder watching someone you love go through cancer .. its a feeling of no control ... its in others hands ... but the best thing i found was having someone hold our hands through it all ... so many have to go through this alone ... chrissie x
