End of life

My mum has terminal cancer, six weeks ago she went into a hospice for pain management, during her time in their she lost the ability to speak, move and function. We brought her home with the doctors telling us she had hours to live. Despite this she came round and responded well to antibiotics. The doctors agreed to restart her cancer treatment. Despite this two weeks ago we saw another deterioration and she ended up in the hospital. Whilst in there she has developed significant bed sores that her causing her pain. She was discharged on Thursday and once again we were told she had hours, we are now on Tuesday and my mum is still here. I keep seeing glimmers of hope regarding her getting a little better. Am I being delusional? Should I take the doctors words as gospel? Or should I be encouraging my mum to get better? She is currently immobile, doubly incontinent and can't speak. She is only 53

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  • Im sorry to hear about your mum, my dad is 61 with terminal cancer, his been having palliative chemo but it looks like thats about to stop, every day we are loosing a bit more of him and its just so hard. If there is one thing ibe learnt is not to take the doctors words as gospel, they said my dad was curable, 4 weeks later he wasnt and now and they are always saying one thing then another thing happens.

    the hospital actually said the ideal situation is that he gave up as him fighting is what causes his infections and various other problems so sounds to me like she is still fighting xxxx

     

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  • Im sorry to hear about your mum, my dad is 61 with terminal cancer, his been having palliative chemo but it looks like thats about to stop, every day we are loosing a bit more of him and its just so hard. If there is one thing ibe learnt is not to take the doctors words as gospel, they said my dad was curable, 4 weeks later he wasnt and now and they are always saying one thing then another thing happens.

    the hospital actually said the ideal situation is that he gave up as him fighting is what causes his infections and various other problems so sounds to me like she is still fighting xxxx

     

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