Dads terminal esophageal cancer

Hi there, so my Dad has stage 4 esophageal cancer that spread to his lungs, found out in September, he has had cancer before & had a big operation 8 years ago & radiotherapy so chemo is only option! He had 6 rounds & it worked better than they ever imagined as it blasted a 6cm tumour into just bits & his lungs into bits too but unfortunately it has grown back after only a few weeks! Gutted!

There is no talk of more chemo, they said they will scan again in July, this is nearly May so they must think he will be alive then? He sounded so down telling me after remaining so positive throughout despite a number of falls, a clot, stent issues...

Atleast we will get to see him indoors in a few weeks so that's something, it's been so hard not seeing him properly! He is 66, I'm 42, this is the hardest thing I've gone through! 

Anyone had it grow back so quick after shrinking?  He doesn't want to ask time scales, I'd rather know! I'm thinking a few months? The Doctor was shocked it even shrunk, they weren't even going to do it because they didnt think there was any point!

Thank you so much in advance.

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  • Hi Kazakp, we haven't got this far yet so I can't tell you anything. My Dad has had 6 rounds of chemotherapy after being diagnosid with stage 4 esophageal cancer - scans shown that there had been reductions in his lymph nodes which was very promoising and he could swallow much better after the second round of chemotherapy - in the last couople of weeks my Dad's swallowing has become a real problem to the point now where he can only have liquids. It's encouraging that you Dad has been through a similar experience before - i guess this shows he is very strong, good luck.

    Lee

  • So sorry to hear about your Dad. It's so hard to watch.

    My Dad seems to be doing really well as he can still eat. When they started the chemo they said it was to stop it growing do to find out it had shrunk away I thought we had a miracle, so to find out it grew back after weeks was a blow! 

    When he had mouth cancer 8 years ago they said he wouldn't eat or talk again but after 2 ops & radiotherapy he can do both no bother then he got his 5 years all clear but then to get it again really sucks! I'm holding onto hope of him doing better than they think but I feel like he may bot have much fight left in him!

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  • So sorry to hear about your Dad. It's so hard to watch.

    My Dad seems to be doing really well as he can still eat. When they started the chemo they said it was to stop it growing do to find out it had shrunk away I thought we had a miracle, so to find out it grew back after weeks was a blow! 

    When he had mouth cancer 8 years ago they said he wouldn't eat or talk again but after 2 ops & radiotherapy he can do both no bother then he got his 5 years all clear but then to get it again really sucks! I'm holding onto hope of him doing better than they think but I feel like he may bot have much fight left in him!

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