My brother is 49
he was diagnosed 23 Dec 2020 with stage 4 lung cancer
he was given 6 months and told there was treatment available for him. He has moved in with me and my husband and my mum has moved in too to care for him. He has made us promise he can stay at home no hospice or hospital which is fine by us
were now into 5 th month and it's killing me trying to work out how long he has to live and what's happening to him !
We love him so much .. and I don't want him to die .. he says he's not scared but just doesn't want to !
he has stopped eating now doesn't even have his fortisip any more . He's just started over last 3 days having diarrhoea 4/5 times a day on commode...
does this mean his body is shutting down ?? He's stopped wearing so much too . But he's still sat up in his chair and talking and for hours.
it's just so painful and we don't know when it will happen and what to expect . Nurses come once a week but don't really say anything.. does anyone know any more to help us
Thankyou xx
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